Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder

For about 5.5% of people who menstruate and are of reproductive age, their menstrual cycles bring on even more challenges. In a society that often stigmatizes menstrual cycles, nor has a lot of research and remedies available, my guess is that number is even higher and menstruating people are struggling in silence.  Do you have … Read more

The Impact of Seasonal Changes

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It’s officially Springtime; so you know what that means! Out with the old and in with the new! Spring represents new beginnings and rebirth, as it is marked by flowers blooming, crops sprouting, animals returning from hibernation, and the cold winter climate dwindling away. Change is not only evident however within our agriculture, weather, and … Read more

DBT Skills For Stress

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And…breathe out Is it just me or does it seem like there is more and more to do every day? It is like a perpetual conveyer belt of tasks! When I’m not able to find ‘off switch’ to that conveyer belt at the end of the day and begin to relax and wind down, I … Read more

Managing Rage: When A Loved One Has Intense Anger

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Anger is an adaptive emotion that prompts us to take action and protect ourselves. Although greater specificity for identifying and understanding anger is provided in the previous blog post, anger generally manifests with a prompting event (e.g., a person feels attacked or threatened) physiological sensations (e.g., muscles tightening) and anger thoughts (“this should not be … Read more

The DBT Guide to Sleep Hygiene

Having trouble sleeping? Sleep plays a vital role in our emotion regulation, memory consolidation, and overall physical wellbeing.  According to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, children between 6 and 12 years old should get 9 to 12 hours of sleep per night and teenagers from 13 to 18 years of age should get 8 … Read more

How to Speak Behaviorism

As a behavioral treatment, DBT operates under the skills deficit model.  This model suggests that problem behaviors arise from a lack of crucial skills such as mindfulness or the ability to tolerate distress.  Using this model, DBT pushes skills like they’re candy at a grocery store checkout aisle. A skills training group is designed to … Read more

How to Actually Change Your Behavior

Sign reading "Turn ideas into reality"

Changing behavior is HARD! I cannot tell you the number of times that I set out to accomplish some super fantastic goal and then find myself completely out of steam and kicking myself for getting my hopes up.  From home improvement projects to creative goals to financial plans, I have weaved elaborate designs without the … Read more

Understanding Anger

Anger is a universal human emotion. In other words, the vast majority of individuals experience variations of anger (i.e., grouchiness, irritability, annoyance, fury, outrage) in their day-to-day lives. Some individuals want to learn how to manage the way that they express anger, while other individuals want to learn how to channel their anger to meet … Read more

Shame

Word "shame" with other words inside the word including; "escape", "bully", "downcast", "insult", "boast", "attack", "gloat".

Shame – everyone experiences this emotion at some point or another. And I’ve got to tell you, it is not an emotion I would describe as pleasant. I would say it’s quite opposite to being pleasant if I’m being totally honest here. But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t have value or that we should try … Read more

Self- Soothing Kit

Imagine you’ve had a tough day at school or work. What do you imagine yourself doing once you get home? Your answer probably depends on how intense your emotions are at that time. All emotions have an associated urge with it. When our emotions are at a distressing level, we can begin to lose sight … Read more