Is Quiet BPD Real?

The whole point of a diagnosis is to better figure out how to get people the help they need based on what they’re experiencing. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revised (DSM-5-TR) does its best to take people’s individual characteristics and experiences and categorize them to be more easily diagnosed.  … Read more

Applying the One-Mindful Skill

When individuals are struggling with emotional dysregulation, one of the stuck points that lots of people face is an overwhelming feeling that there are too many important topics to address at once. There is often a perception that every mental health topic feels like a “red flag” and that all problems need to be addressed … Read more

How Individual Therapy can Improve Relationships

Perhaps you want to go to individual therapy to improve your relationship with your spouse? This goal sounds simple, but achieving this outcome will take a bit more forethought than anticipated. One would expect that individual therapy, which focuses on individual satisfaction, will inevitably result in increased relationship satisfaction. This expectation is based on the … Read more

DBT Skills: ABC Please

When we teach clients about emotion regulation, we usually start with the skills focused on changing our reactions when we have intense emotions. From there we teach how to reduce your vulnerability to emotions. When you’re in situations that would usually prompt intense emotions, they’re not as intense as they could have been before you … Read more

Understanding Family Roles

A new family dressed in white, with their baby girl assuming their new roles as family

In a healthy family system, roles (i.e., parent, child, sibling) are clearly defined to promote stability and clear expectations. With each particular role (e.g., parenting), there are sub-roles such as provision of resources, nurturance and support, and maintenance and management of the family system. To think about the importance of the stability and security that … Read more

Navigate Alternatives to “No”

Parents spending time with their children in the morning providing them with attention and care

Parenting Strategies: Saying Yes to Positivity & How to Navigate Alternatives to “No” Parenting involves navigating a labyrinth of choices, and one crucial aspect is the language we use with our children. A common phrase that frequently is used is “no.” While it may seem like a simple and effective way to set boundaries, its impact can … Read more

Why Practicing Mindfulness Daily is So Important

Mindfulness has become a buzzword, but do we really understand why it’s so essential to our daily lives? At its core, mindfulness is about being present in the moment without judgment. It’s the art of focusing on the here and now, whether it’s the sound of leaves rustling in the wind or the feeling and … Read more

Understanding PTSD: A Comprehensive Guide to Healing

    Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that can develop after experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event. This condition is much more common than people realize and affects millions of people worldwide. Understanding PTSD, recognizing its symptoms, and knowing how to seek help are all crucial steps towards healing and support. What … Read more

Celebrating You While You Celebrate Pride 

June serves as a time for celebration, reflection, and solidarity among LGBTQ+ individuals and their allies. We celebrate Pride Month with events, parades, and activities to promote visibility, acceptance, and advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights. However, for many individuals, Pride Month can also be a challenging time. Some reasons include:  Unresolved Trauma and Discrimination: For many … Read more

Celebrating Juneteenth: Honoring Freedom and Promoting Unity

 If you’ve ever wondered why Juneteenth is such a big deal, here’s a quick summary as to why! This holiday, celebrated on June 19th, marks a pivotal moment in American history. Let’s dive into what Juneteenth is all about, why it’s more relevant today, and how we can all join in celebrating and supporting this … Read more